As a parent, it can be tough to leave your child with a babysitter, especially if it’s someone you don’t know well. You want to make sure that your child is safe, happy, and well-cared for while you’re away, and that the babysitter has everything they need to do their job properly. However, there are some things that your babysitter might not feel comfortable telling you directly, but that they wish you knew.

5 Things Your Babysitter Secretly Wishes You Knew: A Parent’s Guide to Building a Positive Relationship with Your Child’s Caregiver


  1. Be clear about your expectations Your babysitter wants to do a good job, but they can only do so if they know what you expect from them. Make sure you’re clear about what time you’ll be back, any important phone numbers they might need, and any specific instructions for your child’s care. If you have any concerns or special requests, don’t be afraid to bring them up before you leave. This will help your babysitter feel more confident and prepared for their job.

  2. Keep them informed If there are any changes to your plans or if you’re going to be late coming home, make sure to keep your babysitter informed. This will help them plan their time and make sure that your child is well-cared for. If you’re not able to contact them directly, make sure to leave a note with all the important information.

  3. Trust them Your babysitter is there to take care of your child, and they want to do their best. Trust that they will take care of your child and follow your instructions. Constantly calling or texting them to check on your child can be distracting and stressful for your babysitter, and can make them feel like you don’t trust them.

  4. Respect their time Your babysitter has a life outside of their job, and it’s important to respect their time. If you’re running late, let them know as soon as possible, and be prepared to pay them for any extra time they spend with your child. If you need to cancel at the last minute, offer to pay them a cancellation fee to compensate for any lost time.

  5. Show appreciation Taking care of children can be a challenging job, and your babysitter wants to feel appreciated. Make sure to thank them for their hard work and let them know if your child had a good time. If your child has any special needs or preferences, make sure to communicate them clearly so that your babysitter can provide the best care possible.

By following these five tips, you can help ensure that your babysitter feels comfortable and confident in their role, and that your child is well-cared for while you’re away.

Remember to communicate clearly, trust your babysitter, and show appreciation for their hard work.

With these tips, you can establish a positive and productive relationship with your babysitter, making your time away from your child less stressful and more enjoyable.